At least 10 times a week (and not just during media interviews) I am asked why I wrote Living with Certainty: Experience Deep-Soul Joy when I have such a successful executive search practice and am so busy.  My response is always the same and comes from my heart: During my career in executive search with the biggest and best executive search firms, I have had the privilege to work with the “best of the best” executives in the world. Through thousands of conversations and interviews, I have had the opportunity to study — to get into the hearts and minds of some of the most passionate, purposeful, and successful people. In Living with Certainty: Experience Deep-Soul Joy I provide the blueprint in very detailed and practical steps for how anyone can achieve this level of joy, purpose, and fulfillment. My expertise is teaching you to discover your passion and purpose, to maximize your potential, and to create an abundance of everything you want – love, joy, peace, fulfillment, and success – and to reach new heights.

Too many people don’t believe in themselves. They allow doors to close on them because they don’t really believe they’re worthy, that they’re capable of achieving greatness, that they have what it takes. I’m here to tell you that you have within you – probably sitting dormant right now — the very traits and approaches that galvanize to create greatness. You just haven’t known how to put it all together. But it’s in you, right here, right now.

Living with Certainty is a completely new approach to life. No one has ever before put together a life approach program like this – not anyone anywhere in the world. I have spent a great deal of time with people who have reached their potential – and I know what it takes and I know that we all have within us everything we need to shine.

This is why I wrote the book. So everyone can reach their dream, their potential – to see the light and then to shine. Potential that never develops, that never gets the chance to shine is tragic. Living with Certainty:Experience Deep-Soul Joy will empower you to open doors that you never thought possible for yourself – and not way down the road or off in the future. These are changes you can begin to make TODAY to empower and unleash your imagination and the very best of yourself. 

Here’s to all of us shining as brightly as possible -


Stop looking at your feet and start looking up at the stars. ~Stephen Hawking

Here we are -March 1st. Spring is almost upon us. Personally I have never been so excited to celebrate the tranformative and uplifting powers of spring – more light, more growth, more beginnings, more goodness. I am living and breathing transformation and new possibilities. I am swathed in potential and hope, and I am living with complete and utter faith and positivity — the overarching, underlying, and undeniable secret to Living with Certainty™.

Yes, as we begin a new season, there remain challenges, disappointments, and even despair for too many people. Negativity and pessimism abound, and have infiltrated the business world and politics. The tremendous level of uncertainty we are experiencing in the economy, and in a multitude of ways throughout the world, causes people to feel anxious and even fearful.

We can be certain that in order to move forward in our lives and business, we have to develop and utilize productive means to deal with the negativity, hardships, and tests that will inevitably come our way. And it is precisely as we overcome these challenges and prevail that we develop ourselves and learn more about whom we are and what we are capable of. Every test, every fear, every challenge that we successfully overcome is won through the prevailing of positive energy in the form of our thoughts, emotions, beliefs, attitudes, choices, actions, and solutions.

Clearly, we are all not in a position to filter negativity completely out of our lives and careers. There are negative circumstances and people in our lives who can’t be removed merely through the waving of a magic wand. But we clearly can control our positivity quotient in all respects of our lives which will affect every subsequent outcome. The truth is that you probably do not live with maximum positivity.

Success Traits of the Best of the Best
As an executive recruiter I have studied thousands of the best of the best executive leaders in the world. It became obvious to me that the most fulfilled, successful, and joyous of them shared in common an underlying deep faith and positivity. Personally and professionally, this is their approach to life which takes discipline and focus.

Are you really planning for, working toward, and believing the best? Or with every ear ache, conflict, and challenge are you allowing your energy to be lowered, your hopes to be dashed, and your efforts to be sidetracked?

Do you currently live and work every day enveloped in the positive energy of purpose, authenticity, passion, connectivity, love, compassion, faith, and hope? These are the components that are required to live a life that leverages your fullest potentiality and allows you to live with the deepest levels of joy. These are the traits that the top leaders, strongest teams, and most productive employees possess. These are the traits that help to heal your body, transform cultures, create loyal customers, and grow successful businesses. These are the traits that are the antidote for the negativity that plagues personal lives, relationships, careers, teams, and organizations, and that so readily derails success of any sort.

Positive energy is powerful and pure. Your job is to partner every aspect of your being with the purest, most positive energy states. In its most potent form, positive energy is aligned with the power of human purpose and passion. When this energy is poured into our thoughts, actions, beliefs, relationships, and expressions of gratitude, it presents the world with a force with which to be reckoned. When you give love, consider it the greatest gift you can give. When you receive love, consider it the greatest gift life can give to you. Allow the positive energy state you experience when you feel love to provide the benchmark for how you should attempt to live at all times.

If you are a leader, it is incumbent upon you to stem the tide of society’s increasing waves of negativity.  You have to figure out how to overcome it in order to thrive in challenging times.

Purely positive energy transforms lives and organizations and creates abundance. Uncertainty, anxiety, and fear quite simply get in the way. It is my mission to make sure that as many people as possible get a chance to shine – that potential is maximized and joy is multiplied. Everyone has potential, dreams, and imagination that should be explored and shared. Don’t allow doors to close on you. Positive energy and ideas make good things happen.

So how do you begin to have faith, live with hope, embrace authenticity, tackle change, leverage potential, and pursue passion? It’s easier to achieve than you may realize. You begin with the intention to do so, but it also requires a plan and system that clearly delineates a process of discovery and action that you can surrender to with confident faith. Living from a consistently positive energy state inspires purely powerful and positive beliefs and actions. There is no place for dwelling in feelings of worry and worst-case scenarios.

This means letting go of the pessimism and negativity that lowers and densens your positive energy, paralyzes your actions, and derails your positive efforts. As you live with passion and purpose, you tap into a flow of positivity that naturally moves your life and organization forward.

Living with Certainty™ and the Energy Enablers provide you with the safety net you need to begin a new life, a new business, or a new level of teamwork and organizational performance. Living with Certainty™ provides a practical plan for moving forward in a way that feels natural, not forced or reckless. True feelings of purpose, passion and authenticity naturally fuel faith, hope, and trust that overcome anxiety and fear. This is when your actions and efforts begin to transform your life and business.

Gratitude Attracts Positivity
There are so many people, events, and circumstances in our lives for which we can and should be feeling and expressing immense gratitude. When you find yourself in a negative flow of energy, turn to gratitude as the antidote. I choose to focus on the positive and that for which I am immensely grateful, and am screening out as much of the extraneous, unnecessary daily negativity from my life as possible. I am extremely discriminating about whom and what find their way through my negativity filters.

Seize this time to undertake needed change and transformation. You can do this – the question is whether you can finally commit to a new way of life. It’s worth the effort. As network TV journalist, Diane Sawyer, has said, joy and positivity are forces — energy multipliers in everything we do. Take a few minutes right now to jot down the actions you can take and changes  you can make to ensure that 2012 will be an amazing year.


I am often asked about the sources of my inspiration, as well as for additional books (besides Living with Certainty: Experience Deep-Soul Joy) that can provide training and support as you undertake living a life of positive, uplifting energy and belief. The following list is a great start!

Carol Adrienne, The Purpose of Your Life (New York: William Morrow & Co., 1998)

Charlene Belitz & Meg Lundstrom, The Power of Flow/Practical Ways to Transform

Your Life with Meaningful Coincidence (New York: Three Rivers Press, 1998)

Stephan Bodian, Meditation for Dummies (Wiley Publishing: 2006)

Gregg Braden, The Spontaneous Healing of Belief (Carlsbad, CA: Hay House, Inc.,


Gregg Braden, The Divine Matrix (Carlsbad, CA: Hay House, Inc., 2007)

Rhonda Byrne, The Secret (New York: Simon & Schuster, Beyond Words Publishing:


Pema Chodron, Start Where You Are (Boston: Shambhala, 2001)

Deepak Chopra, The Book of Secrets (New York: Three Rivers Press)

Tony D’Souza and Bud Wonsiewicz, Discovering Awareness: A Guide to Inner

Peace, Strength and Freedom (Broadway Living Press, 2006)

Dr. Wayne W. Dyer, Your Ultimate Calling (Carlsbad, CA: Hay House, Inc., 2008)

Dr. Wayne W. Dyer, The Invisible Force (Carlsbad, CA: Hay House, Inv., 2007)

John Edward, One Last Time (New York: Berkley Books, 1999)

Debbie Ford, The Right Questions: Ten Essential Questions to Guide You to an

Extraordinary Life (San Francisco: Harper Collins, 2004)

Dr. Susan Gregg, The Complete Idiot’s Guide to Spiritual Healing (Alpha Books:

Penguin Group, USA)

Esther and Jerry Hicks, The Law of Attraction (Carlsbad, CA: Hay House, Inc., 2007)

Paul Kurtz, Exuberance/A Philosophy of Happiness (New York: Prometheus Books,


Elizabeth Lesser, The Seeker’s Guide: Making Your Life a Spiritual Adventure (New

York: Random House, 1999)

Denise Linn, The Secret Language Signs: How to Interpret the Coincidences in Your

Life (New York: Random House, 1996)

Sadie Nardini, Road Trip Guide to the Soul: A 9-Step Guide to Reaching Your Inner

Self and Revolutionizing Your Life (New Jersey: John Wiley & Sons, Inc., 2008)

Penney Peirce, Frequency: The Power of Personal Vibration (New York: Atria Books,


Mary Anne Radmacher, Live Boldly (California: Conari Press, 2008)

Sanaya Roman, Living with Joy (California: H. J. Kramer, Inc., 1986)

Marsha Sinetar, Do What You Love, The Money Will Follow (New York: Dell

Publishing, 1987)

Eckhart Tolle, A New Earth: Awakening to Your Life’s Purpose (Plume Printing:

Penguin Group, USA, 2005)

Patricia Rose Upczak, Synchronicity Signs & Symbols (Colorado: Synchronicity

Publishing, 2001)

Wallace D. Wattles, The Science of Getting Rich/Financial Success Through Creative

Thought (New York: Barnes & Noble, 2007 Edition)

Gary Zukav, Soul to Soul/Communications from the Heart (New York: Free Press,


Gary Zukav, The Seat of the Soul (New York: Simon & Schuster, 1989)

Jack Canfield and D. D. Watkins, Jack Canfield’s Key to Living the Law of Attraction

(Florida: Health Communications, Inc., 2007)

Marci Shimoff with Carol Kline, Happy for No Reason (New York: Free Press, 2008)

Mick Ukleja, Ph.D. and Robert Lorber, Ph.D., Who Are You and What Do You Want?

(Iowa: Meredith Books, 2008)